Making yourself better

What is exactly my goal? When I can say that yes I have gained the stability of my life and I am successful.
What is the mark where I have to reach? Financially, Socially, Professionally and Personally. In all the four horizons what is that I have to be so that I may call myself yes this is it, which I was dreaming.

Personally, I am a good guy and I have to be a good guy. No such jealousy, hidden thoughts for anyone.

Professionally I am getting better. I am learning every day doing something which I can't do or is at the higher level. This way I am taking steps vertically. Need to go further. At this moment I am an employee. One day I will stand out my own business or uphold father's business and will run it.

Financially I am getting better, my bank account is getting a good amount of savings. Though I need to learn how to spend and run your livelihood entirely on yourself. I need to educate myself and practise this. How much I am earning, how much I should spend and how much should I save. I need to work out on this part.

Socially, yes this part needs a lot of attention. I am not going out mixing with people and being social. I am living alone with myself. I really need to go out and open up in every different type of groups and community.

The point which I have missed out are being Healthy, how is my Psychology, what is my Philosophy?

These are the areas which also need attention when you need stability and success in your life.

The Sherlock effect

Yesterday (3rd May 2015) it was Sunday and I was stuck in watching a TV series named Sherlock, I really like the serial, it made me think that when you are obsessed about something i.e. your work which you love to do, then you are never left alone anywhere.
Things which had surprised me from that series are the term like

• Mindmap
• Thinking with the help of pictures
• Solving a problem in your mind with a large amount of data
• Talking to yourself and avoiding what others are thinking about you when you do so
• Love the subject which you like working on
• Creating a space in your home which is comfortable of thinking and experimenting

I wonder how can a person be so much obsessed about doing something so much. Waoooo I would say.
When you are alone you enhance the skills which you have and then while working along or with someone you can show off your skills set which you actually have and trying to upgrade it every day.
Thats what humans like isn't it, people liking them and appreciating their qualities. This make a person feel satisfied.

Watching Sherlock has somehow affected my way of thinking, now I don't like to think low level thoughts.
I need to enhance myself and you the time when I am alone productively.

How can I experiment the logic which I thought to develop any module of the project?

Truth about self success.

A man is known by his own mentality. How successful he will be in his life or will achieve which he wants to.

I kept on thinking for years about the secret behind a man's success. Here when I was driving to office today (11th May 2015) morning I realised that it's not the quality which makes a man perfect. It is the things which are in his head, the process of thinking the content of his/her thinking.

If I am having a clear thought of something like what I should do in each stage of life, which kind of close friends I choose to stay with. All this point makes a man perfect and closer to his goal.

If my thought process is clear without any complexity and I know what to do and when I don't know then at least know what decision I should take to proceed further then I am walking on the right path.

All this while in my life I use to think how to become a person like I use to dream. The righteous and successful person. Now I know I am heading towards the right direction in my life.

• Trying to improve myself each day.
• Finding ways to keep myself productive each day.
• Making new friends.
• Stepping towards the community workers in organisations like CRY.

No doing wasteful things and utilising the time as much as possible like Sherlock.

In our life there are few role models who inspire us. I have also been inspired by such characters (real or fiction) but I really received it well and I think we should let good characters inspire us. Read about them and learn from their methods. Build up thought process as well. 

This is what I think which will make a person worthy for himself and take him towards the goal which he/she dreams of.