I guess it has started to be clear now that it's the goal which drives a person or else he or she may fall in the grip of the activities which gives him good feelings only or exactly pleasure seeking activities, and suprirsingly these activities don't have enough returns in a long term future. Now when I am at a decent age of my life, I can see how people craft themselves, how I have crafted myself in last decades and based on the material that has been added to my body and mind, a lot of the actions are performed sub-conciously.
Here one needs to be very alive on understanding which direction his ship is going because by now we have grown a very large amount of likings (small or big) doesn't matter. From having a likingness to eat cakes and chocolates when we see them to giving for a morning run, all of them comes under the same roof. Thus some likings might give us pleasure where as some might give you pain, but one has to rise above this body level feeling first and see from his intellect that which one gives what in a longer run. If we get up every day and go for a run in the morning, it surely hurts but if one keeps on doing that for a consistent amount of time, it actually helps him build his health in a very good way, but it will take time.